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TIPS FOR COMMUNICATING WITH PEOPLE WHO HAVE ENGLISH
AS A SECOND LANGUAGE - A MANAGER'S GUIDE
1. Speak slowly
It takes time for the newcomer to translate and process
information. Allow the person enough time to complete
the three-step process of hearing, translating and
understanding.
2.
Speak in short sentences
It is like eating small bites of a sandwich. It is easier
to chew and digest that way.
3.
Use simple words
My high school principal once told me that "genius
was in simplicity". I have never forgotten that
principle. The next time your doctor begins to explain
your medical condition, remind him what it takes to
be a genius.
4.
Avoid using abbreviations and slang
"FYI, the office is open to you 7/24/365. We encourage
thinking out of the box".
5.
Humor
Humor is great. There is nothing like humor to bond
and bridge differences. However, be careful. It can
be misinterpreted in different cultures and many experts
will advise you against using humor with people who
have English as a second language. I disagree and believe
that if you are sure that you will not be misunderstood,
there is nothing more powerful than a giggle for bonding.
6.
Encourage people to ask questions
Most people who do not understand a word or sentence
will smile or nod. They hope that they have or will
get the gist of the message. This can lead to serious
mistakes.
Whenever
I consult with someone whose language I cannot speak,
I apologize for not being able to speak their language
and earnestly request that they ask me to repeat anything
that I have not communicated properly. I explain that
if I cannot communicate perfectly with my client, then
I am failing at my job. I open the door to questions
by making it comfortable and safe to ask questions.
7.
Body language
Many experts discourage any use of body language because
different cultures can interpret certain body signs
in different ways. These experts believe that you can
offend someone without even knowing it. I take a contrary
view. I believe that you should use every means of communication
available to you to express your thoughts. Sure, there
are certain symbols and signs which have different meanings
in different countries. The reality is that there are
so few of these signs that the benefits of talking with
your hands outweigh the remote possibility for offense.
8.
Use common sense
Language is the best form of communication. Yet we sometimes
offend our friends and loved ones through miscommunication
and misunderstanding. If this can happen to two people
who speak the same language, share the same culture
and love each other, it is far more likely to occur
when people do not share these common bonds
Be
aware of what you are saying, how it is being received,
and what response you are getting. Be more aware than
usual.
Beware:
The fact that you sent the memo does not mean that everyone
got it.
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